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Guys, listen up.
I'm about to give you a VIP pass inside of the collective consciousness, of all popular women here on Fet.
Imagine, that you're a girl. Now imagine that you have more then 20k followers. No imagine that every time you post a photo, you get anywhere from 100, to 300 messages, within 72 hours, and that EVERY message is a iteration of the following:
"oh babygirl, I want cum to you. Want to chat?"
"Hey bitch, you like dick? Let's talk"
"Hi, I'm new here, can you show me what to do here? Let's chat"
"Hi, I say your photo. I don't have a big cock but I would like to fuck. Interested?"
"What's the most korrupted thing you've done. Don't spare any details. Write me all of it, we can chat"
"I'm stroking my hard cock right now. Do you like that? Wanna see it"
"I'm gonna rape your holes and make you scream my name. I'm so fucking hard right now you slut. I'm gonna make you my slave. My cock is so fucking hard. I'm so fucking hard for you slut. Let's chat slut"
Now imagine you DO chat with one of these guys. They tell you they love your (insert hole description here) and that they are going to (insert generic dominant sex activity here) and then you are going to take their "huge load" (insert body part/orifice here) Then, they cum, and the chat is over.
It's basically like playing XXX madlibs, with a cute boy, who is really, really dumb.
Now imagine doing this, 100 to 200 times a day.
Would you "hey, wanna chat"?
Trust me boys, NO girl on here "wants to chat". She's heard EVERY combination of sexting possible, 1000 times.
YOU want to chat. You want to cum. You want to have HER play in YOUR fantasy.
The irony, is that she's far too busy, and far too bored, to ever engage with you on that level.
You want her interest? Be....gasp....INTERSTEING. Tell her something she HAS'NT heard. You want her attention? Offer her an experience or opportunity that's about her, not you. Offer to support her OF/etsy/twitch page, or purchase her worn shoes, or help her make a website, or offer to take her out to dinner....or literally ANYTHING ELSE but "hey, wanna chat?"
Now I know some men will be like "but Kristy, this site is for free hook ups and for true sluts. A real slut gives it for free. My interest is payment enough"
I'm sorry to tell you this, but that's not the case. ANY desirable woman on here is SPECIFICALLY choosing high value partners. Fet is not at all separate from the real world. It's not a magical land where decency, charm, value, and etiquette no longer apply. Sure, girls show their buttholes here, but the difference between LOOKING at that butthole and FUCKING that butthole, is a big one.
Since the beginning of time desirable women have been competed over. This is facts. Fetlife is not free from this reality. What does that mean? It means bring your A game. It means work out, have a good job, be funny, develop a character and a charm. It means be the best possible version of yourself. It means go for gold. It means dress well. Shower. Take care of yourself.
Trust me boys, just like in life, what you get here on Fetlife, is directly proportional to how high value you are.
So go to the gym. Start a buisness. Start volunteering. Get some suits. Meditate. Learn a new language. Etc, etc.....it WILL go a LONG way towards getting you crazy amounts of ass.
Seriously, It's a pro tip.